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On being in the moment

by GK on May 12, 2009 · 4 comments

A lot of guys worry about what to talk about with a woman … hell, I remember the dark ages of my mid-20s, when I would write down conversation topics before a date and keep a cheat sheet in my pocket. Somehow, it didn’t help. I don’t worry about that anymore. Sure, I’ll hit some occasional dead spots with a […]

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On being alone

by GK on May 4, 2009 · 3 comments

I hope you enjoyed my first podcast with dR, and our discussion/debate about whether to hook up with women who don’t meet our standards. I thought dR made some great points about why it’s OK — especially for guys who are having little to no sex. One factor that I didn’t elaborate on is about being alone, […]

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My bachelor pad playlist

by GK on May 2, 2009 · 3 comments

If reincarnation does exist, I want to come back as a DJ. I spend more time than I can count digging through Web sites in search of the hot new band or track, and I’m also passionate about my old favorites. And if I’ve got a woman over, I enjoy sharing my collection. For those […]

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It’s not you … it’s her

by GK on April 29, 2009 · 9 comments

I’ve been through some experiences with women lately that reinforced my thoughts on this whole picking-up-women thing, and what defines a successful or failed interaction. The old mentality, the one pushed on me when I was first reading about this stuff, was that I bore the obligation of closing the deal with a girl, and that […]

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I’m usually not into providing instant dating recaps, but considering my last post, I thought this was too funny. So tonight I had Date No. 1 with the hottie I was introduced to at the party four nights earlier. I had e-mailed the guy who introduced us, thanking him for it and suggesting we talk soon to discuss […]

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