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The Wingman Rules

by GK on July 5, 2009 · 4 comments

Lately, I’ve been teaching some younger guys who don’t have much experience meeting women in bars, and they’ve been curious to know more about wingman etiquette. So I thought I’d play Moses and trot out 10 commandments for anyone who’s curious. Every now and then I have to train a wingman of my own, and if you ever want […]

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  Whether it’s under the Transamerica Building or the Empire State Building, San Francisco and New York are two of America’s most flirt-friendly cities. But how do they differ when it comes to meeting women? I gave our New York instructor, Eastside Mike, a call to discuss it on the GK Shares Game podcast. Mike talks about how […]

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OK, so it wasn’t quite the ending to “Kill Bill, Vol. 1”, but I did leave you on a bit of a cliffhanger with Part I of my guide to girls with boyfriends. Here’s the rest: Do not diss the guy. Even if she’s doing it. He is still her boyfriend, after all, and if you ridicule him, […]

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If there’s one thing I’ll say about dating in San Francisco, it does present dilemmas and opportunities that a guy is unlikely to find in other big cities. In some future post, I’ll discuss how incestuous the dating pool is here — not in an Alabama kind of way, but more in a “Real World vs. Road […]

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  dR and I return for this episode of the Justice League Podcast, in which we tackle two more hot topics: whether a guy’s looks really matter with women, and the issue of technique vs. personality in meeting women. Among the nuggets of wisdom we offer: my fool-proof way to land hot women no matter […]

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On being alone

by GK on May 4, 2009 · 3 comments

I hope you enjoyed my first podcast with dR, and our discussion/debate about whether to hook up with women who don’t meet our standards. I thought dR made some great points about why it’s OK — especially for guys who are having little to no sex. One factor that I didn’t elaborate on is about being alone, […]

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I just finished up a fun two-part podcast with my fellow initialed Charisma Arts instructor, dR of Los Angeles.  And true to our geeky nature, we’ve dubbed it the Justice League podcast. Don’t expect any references to Solomon Grundy, though. For the first podcast, we gave our different takes on the issue of whether to […]

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It’s not you … it’s her

by GK on April 29, 2009 · 9 comments

I’ve been through some experiences with women lately that reinforced my thoughts on this whole picking-up-women thing, and what defines a successful or failed interaction. The old mentality, the one pushed on me when I was first reading about this stuff, was that I bore the obligation of closing the deal with a girl, and that […]

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