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We seem to love us an apocalypse — even a fake one. There’s a good reason why the Mayans got way more publicity in 2012 than, say, the Aztecs. So it is with sex and relationships in America. My Twitter feed has been chock full of authors predicting the end times, whether it’s the end […]

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I never get tired of hearing success stories, and I’ve got another one for you. This one comes from a special event: my last bootcamp with Charisma Arts almost two years ago. I enjoyed myself immensely during that session, in part because both guys I coached that weekend were starting from scratch in their social […]

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When to Approach a Large Group

by GK on July 4, 2011 · 2 comments

We’ve often heard about the “three-second rule” when it comes to approaching people at a bar or party, but I was reminded of one scenario where waiting a little longer can pay off. I was with a student at a bar in the Mission recently, and over our shoulders stood a party of perhaps eight people — guys […]

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Does game really matter? I’ve seen it debated, most recently in the comments section of my post on looking for women’s interest. Heck, even I’ve contradicted myself — on one hand I talk about how technique is overrated and often irrelevant, and yet, um, have you noticed the name of this blog? My buddy Tre Tre represented […]

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I’ve had female friends most of my life and currently hang out with a gaggle of them. Rob Overman has had one female friend his entire life and considers them a waste of time. We thought this would be a great subject for a podcast, and we spent the better part of an hour debating it. Ultimately, […]

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I’ve said it, and so have so many others in the advice-giving game: Be Yourself. It’s so vague yet so right at the same time, and the gap we must bridge to explain it can seem wider than the Grand Canyon. What if we don’t know ourselves yet? What if yourself changes a little bit from day to day? […]

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Musings from the mailbag

by GK on June 15, 2010 · 8 comments

Sometimes I look to you, my dear readers, for inspiration on blog topics. Especially when I’m swamped with work, my social life and the Celtics in the NBA Finals. (I really, really hope they win Game 6 on Tuesday so my life can return to normal and I’m no longer an anxious mess.) So with three of you […]

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How to stop dating the girl?

by GK on September 4, 2009 · 2 comments

Blogging inspiration can come to me from strange places, and this week it came to me from a girl I dated earlier this year. I’d mentioned a date with her in my post about being in the moment, and although I think she’s good people, I stopped calling her after three dates. So I just found out she […]

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